BDABRock's Blog

Dear Wooker:

I ask you...do you love me? If you answer...yes...but you show that your love is always discreet, always wise, always sensible and calculating...and never carried beyond itself...well...it may not be love; it may be affection, it may be a warmth of feeling but it has not the true nature of love in it. You can bring value to me, because you love me...do not do it out of duty or because it is useful...but rather love me through the small, simple things you do...not the colossal things. Give me evidence that you are outside yourself...abandoned...to me...this is what gives me value. Even more than your properness...your correct manners everywhere...lest the people's eyes be on YOU, for your charm...but not on me. Perfect love casts out all these other pretentions...and ....again I say...it is not a matter of being proper.....logical....or correct...but rather, of value to my soul...deep down.

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