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by Brent_Campbell from Winston-Salem

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"The most tragic case I have seen in many, many years."  Those are the words I heard an attorney representing 21 year old Dakota Doster say as he wrapped up his case in court today.  I have to agree. As the family of 14 year old Terion Frazier wailed in sorrow, it was emotionally draining to listen to the court proceedings.  The man pleading guilty to shooting someone he called a friend was soft spoken and obviously frightened for his future.  Doster's attorney told the court,  Terion and he liked to play videogames often. As I listened it was hard not to see the scene in my mind, two "buddies" playing a game talking trash as one begins to edge the other one out.  It's a scene I am sure many have lived time and time again. But what I couldn't grasp, is before that game, finding a gun and carrying into a friends house and suddenly puling the trigger.  Why?  Did Dakota not realize it was loaded? Did he think it wouldn't really fire?  Did he think it was a toy? Did he understand what having a gun with him and pulling the trigger really meant?  Did he know the gun's power? Those are questions the court did not answer today.  Ones I would never attempt to answer. Questions I am sure Terion's mother will ask many times over. Answers that only Dakota has and will continue to ponder as he spends the next 14 to 18 years behind bars.

   As I wrap up coverage on this story I walk away pondering those questions too.  Seeing two families, two friends, and dozens of lives torn apart by one moment is not easy to witness.  What was great to see was a hurting mother, who now is making a plea to other teens.  Using her pain, to share some advice. Messages many teens should likely hear so their mother isn't put through such a nightmare. In tears,  Lakenya Frazier asked teens to put down the guns.  She says, If you find one  give it to an adult.  Respect its power and never think its a toy.  Understand a gun's power  because in one split second misused and misunderstood, a gun can change and end lives forever. I think many would argue, that's solid advice in a world where it seems senseless deaths and robberies at the mercy of a gun lead our newscasts everyday.  

"The most tragic case I have ever seen." A young man pleading guilty, accepting the blame and the punishment for an afternoon with his friend. An afternoon that may not have happened had a gun never been found.  Two buddies who probably could have never guessed their videogame that March afternoon, would end one year later with one buried and one going to jail for several years to come.   

        

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Warnin
Mar 13, 2008 | 5:25 PM

What amazes me is he can be out walking the street in 14 years. If the kid he killed had been white he would be looking at the chair. Just how much is a black life worth?

Brent_Campbell read my blog view my photos
Mar 14, 2008 | 8:58 AM

I am no lawyer, but from what the Assistant District Attorney was telling me, that sentence is actually pretty stiff for second degree murder. Obviously first degree murder carries the life sentence or death penalty for much different reasons than does the reduced punishment of second degree. I also think the judge took into account that the young man admitted the crime the same day it happened, was cooperative, showed remorse and had no prior record to speak of. So some argue he got a tough sentence, obviously the family feels like it should have been more. I can say this....I am glad I am not a judge! Making those sentencing calls is tough!

ladyorchid read my blog
Mar 14, 2008 | 3:43 PM

that is so true Brent! The race of the victim or the assailant had nothing to do with the decision here. This was such a sad a case!

DW45 read my blog view my photos
Mar 16, 2008 | 7:32 AM

If the kid is that stupid, I WANT him locked up, and not out here on the sidewalk with me and my Wife!

MOMOTF78
Apr 1, 2008 | 11:28 PM

TERION WAS LIKE A BROTHER TO ME AND THAT NIGHT I GOT THAT CALL I THOUGHT ABOUT GOING TO KILL MY SELF BUT I GOT TO CALL MY GRANDMOTHER AND WE PRAYED ABOUT THE SITUATION. 14 TO 18 YEARS TO ME AINT NOTHING TERION IS DEAD R.I.P WE NOT GOING TO SEE NO MORE OF HIM UNLESS WE GO TO THE CEMENTARY BUT DOKOTA WILL BE IN HIS LATE 30'S HE STILL GOT A FULL LIFE A HEAD OF HIM AND I THINK THAT IF TAKE A LIFE YOU SHOULD GET LIFE NOT DEAF BUT LIFE IN PRISON. THAT DAY AT THE COURT ROOM I WANTED TO RUN IN THERE AND BREAK HIS NECK FOR KILLING TERION BUT IM GLAD I HAVE GOD ON MY SIDE BECAUSE IF HE WASNT I PROBLE WOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING BAD TO THAT MAN THAT DAY. BUT ME AND KENYA (TERIONS MOM) HAVE BEEN CHECKING UP ON EACH OTHER AND MAKING SURE THAT WE ARE ALL RIGHT. AND I JUST WANT TO SAY I WILL ALL WAYS LOVE YOU TERION AND YOU WILL ALLWAYS BE MISSED AND KENYA aka MOM YOU WILL ALL WAYS BE IN MY PRAYER HOPEING THAT YOU CAN KEEP GETTING BETTER I KNOW ITS HARD TRUST ME WE BOTH LOST SOMETHING BIG I LUVE AND HIM BOTH. LOVE MOMO R.I.P "T"

DW45 read my blog view my photos
Apr 2, 2008 | 12:11 AM

If you had walked up and snapped his neck on the spot, then they would have locked you up, too...your heart's in the right place, though...

I truly hate your loss and pain, and may God comfort you ...

DW45

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Brent_Campbell

Yes, in case you can't tell, I am from the South! I'm originally from Davie County, grew up in the area and feel lucky to be back home. I have worked at FOX8 for 9 years as the Winston-Salem Bureau Chief and helped manage our partnership with the Winston-Salem Journal. Before coming to FOX8 I worked at ABC/WPDE in Myrtle Beach. While I like the beach, I love the mountains. I graduated from App State, the three time National Football Champions! I have two dogs, Jake a Golden Retriever and Sydney a Siberian Husky. I love college sports and am the head cheer coach at Wake Forest.

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