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Mean Mamma - Help!
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:29 PM
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Hey Guys! Sorry to be gone so long, but life lives me instead of me living life.

I’m going to be back on in a couple days to discuss this nasty election, but today I have another dilemma. 

A friend of mine is going through a nasty divorce where his soon to be ex-wife is violating a court order and forbidding him from seeing his son.

He can’t afford an attorney and seems to be pretty well screwed. She refuses to deliver his son as ordered by the courts and he doesn’t have a clue on what he should do.

Has anyone else here been in a similar situation or have any advice they can offer my friend? The court order clearly states she’s supposed to deliver their son to him every other weekend, but she just absolutely refuses to follow the order.

 

She’s even gone as far as to make false accusations and file a false police report.  I’ve cried a lot of tears for this friend of mine and especially his son. By the way his son is a beautiful perfect little six year old (I’ll tell ya’ll more about him in a couple of days).

 

So guys let’s heart it. He’s here with me now and we’ll be around for a little while, but any advice you can offer him would be appreciated.

Love Ya’ll

Wayne a.k.a. Bugs and Master Yoda

PS: The worst part of all this is the little boy is being put in the middle and his mother doesn't ever seem to care.

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ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:34 PM

Hey dude...man I picked a GREAT time to come back too...how's it going?? I sure missed you while I was gone:)

OK, give me some time to do the research but there is a father's rights organization that can help. I'll give you the link. Give me a few secs and Ill try to find it.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:37 PM

Hi Clara!

He's going through a Father's Equal Rights group, but they don't seem to be much help on telling him how to get her to comply.

How ya' been? Been gone have you? Me too, but I hope I'll be back on more this month. I mean it is an election year.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:40 PM

PS: Clara, is that you in the pic? Funny, I always thought you'd look different than that.

I'm wondering if he should try picking his son up tomorrow and what he can do if she refuses his visitation again.
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:40 PM

oops...feel free to delete one of those...I'll let you choose which one...LOL

http://www.fathersrights.org/

Here is one more...

http://www.fightforyourkids.com/Father_s_Rights.html?OV
RAW=father's%20rights%20free&OVKEY=free%20attorney%20fo
r%20father%20right&OVMTC=advanced&OVADID=4125908011&OVK
WID=10572192511

Not sure about the second one but I know there is good info ont he first one.

It sucks when parents do this to each other. All just to get back at one another...and not thinking about the scars it gives the children. I have a friened in the reverse situation and it really is a heart breaker to know what the kids go through.
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:42 PM

I would assume the police can escort him there and enforce the visitation agreement. Has he tried that?

Oh...thats me alright...LOL. I gree a goatee while we were both gone...LOL.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:43 PM

After ten years of marriage she finds a new man and says goodbye without warning.

He’s still madly in love, but she wants no part of him. He’s one of best husbands and fathers I’ve ever met.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:46 PM

He will tomorrow, but the prosecuting attorney says if she's not there, they can't do anything about it.

He's going crazy from not being able to see or even talk to his son.

I like the goatee; it's very becoming.
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:47 PM

Man, that's sad. My friend who has been with her husband for 16 years just got divorced and he is making it so hard for her. It trickles down to the kids which is not fair.

I just don't see the point in venting your anger though your children. What's the point? If she is happy with her new man, then why make it hard for her ex? That is so not right.

She needs to let him move and and be happy, without making her children or him suffer.
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:48 PM

I didn't think about that. That wouldn't work if she left. You want me to go do some Clara UFC moves on her azz? I'll take her down...LOL.

I think the goatee needs a trim though...it tickles my belly.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:51 PM

AMEN!

A lot of dads don't care if they see their kids or pay child support, but my friend (JT)loves his child so much that's all he thinks about.

His soon to be ex is making this so hard on him for no reason.

Why are people so mean? That's a question I've been asking for a lot of years and haven't gotten a good answer yet.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:55 PM

You go girl!

Was the goatee a result of hormones?

That reminds me of a joke. A lady goes to the doctor and says, “Doctor I think those hormones you gave me are too strong. I’ve started growing a beard.”

The doctor asks, “How long is the beard?”

The woman says, “Down to my…ah…ah…another word for the male member.”

That was a moaner or a groaner I know.
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 5:58 PM

I never understood why people have to drag their kids into their affairs. They tell their kids they love them but then make it so hard for them to grow up by having to deal with things like this. It can be so emotionally draining for kids to go through this.

It's really sad. I hope him the best. He sounds like a great guy. I don't know why all the good guys get dumped on. I swear some women can be so freaking cruel sometimes:( Makes me embarassed to be one myself when you have women out there acting like this.
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 6:01 PM

Women don't have an exsclusive on being cruel, but I have seen some pretty cruel people. I think this woman takes first prize.

Why can't I get my paragraphs to work right?
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 6:03 PM

I so have to find a new avie...haven't had the time..nor wanted to put forth the effort...I'm all about Limp Bizkit though...I don't know if I'll ever grow up and listen to normal music...LOL
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 6:05 PM

I know they aren't exclusive but they are pretty nasty when it comes to divorce. I know more women who have been total buttheads than usually the men are.

Not sure what you mean about the paragraphs...LOL...Operator error??? LMFAO
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 6:14 PM

"Operator error"...mmmmm...probably.

Tell him it's going to be OK and who knows maybe we can find him a woman who deserves a good...no...great guy.!;)
ClaraBell read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 6:20 PM

I'll be on the lookout for a lady for him...I have very strict standards...well, maybe I'm not the BEST at standards...But I do try:)

I have about an hour left of work to do then gotta cook some dinner...I got behind on my work today cause of Ted saying he wasn't wearing any pants today...TOTALLY side-tracked me...LOL.

Good to see you and take care:) I missed ya dude! I'll check with ya later if you're around:)
Bugs read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 6:29 PM

I miss you too.!:(

Have a great evening. We're taking off soon too, but everyone else PLEASE feel free to offer my friend advice and we'll check back in a couple of days.

Bugs & JT
KellerKowboy read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 7:25 PM

Hey, Dude....nice to see your ugly face.

On the matter at hand; from personal/professional experience I can tell you that your friend is urinating into the wind, absent a good (and I mean GOOD) attorney. The good news is that courts are starting to "see" the intent of such violations of court orders and are rectifying them....But, only after giving the offender at least two or three chances to keep right on offending!

It's totally a civil matter, so if one or the other doesn't comply, law enforcement is helpless. It's only after the court orders the appropriate law enforcement authorities (usually the sheriff's department) to take action, that they can do so. Usually, they just stand around and count for the knockdowns.
wrongway00 read my blog view my photos
Oct 2, 2008 | 8:18 PM

Hey Bugs :) Long time no see!

I'm sorry to hear about what your friend is going thru. I've never understood how someone can do this to their kids, no matter how they feel about the other parent. I can see it if they think the child would be in danger, but I seriously doubt that's the case here.

Like CB, I did a little research and found a site he may want to take a peek at. It says they have a free consult and just that may help him shed some light on a very difficult subject. The link is http://nationalfamilysolutions.com/fathers_rights.html<
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Keep us up to date on how things are going for him, and let us know if we can do anything to help. Take care and good luck :)
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