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Sweetest Day is this Saturday (10/18), a day to recognize and remember your romantic sweetheart. Over the years, Sweetest Day has evolved into a time to express romantic love, so your choice of words and style of communication are critical.

What are the best things to say to your partner on SWEETEST DAY (and all year round.)

1. I Would Still Choose You.
2. What Is Your Opinion?
3. I Notice.
4. Let's Plan.



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Do you have a problem saying "no" to your children? It is never easy.

Do you have a problem saying "no" in general to other people at work, home-- or to family and friends? Sometimes we say yes because we think it is easier, we like to please others, or we feel guilty about the time we spend with our children or family.

What is your advice on how to say "no"-- when you really need to!

Dr. Terri, The Love Doctor
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Studies show that money can be a sore spot for many couples, but this week, given that Tax Day is just around the corner—even more so! About 7 out of 10 couples say that money causes tension in their relationship.

How do you handle money differences or conflict in your relationship?

Tune in to the morning news on Tuesday (4/15), when I will discuss Couples and Money-- Get it Right.
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We all know that when springtime officially arrives, it means it is time to start thinking about dating and finding that someone special.

So, what are the best places to meet a relationship partner? Let me know your thoughts and ideas.

Then, tune in to the morning news on Tuesday (3/25), when I will discuss my tips on dating and finding that someone special.

Dr. Terri

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In the wake of the Eliot Spitzer scandal last week, everyone seems to be asking the same question. What do you think? Why do powerful men cheat on their wives?

Tune in to the morning news on Tuesday (3/18), when I will discuss my answer to the question.

Dr. Terri

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What would you do if your partner was to run out for a second, and they left their email messages or wallet/purse open for you to see? Would you read the email messages and/or snoop through their wallet/purse?

Tune into the morning news on Tuesday (3/11). I will discuss "Is it okay to Spy or Snoop on Your Partner?"

Dr. Terri

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Valentine's Day gives us permission to celebrate love and affection!

It is a perfect day to have fun, rekindle passion, be playful, explore a new relationship, or just appreciate the important people in our lives. Tune in Tuesday morning (2/5) to "The Love Doctor" segment, where I will discuss "Simple Steps to Falling in Love Again... With Your Partner."


What do you want to do on Valentine's Day this year?


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Tuesday (1/15) is the Michigan Primary. This kicks off a year long intense climate of politics and debate in Michigan. Can you and your partner discuss politics? Do you disagree? For many couples, politics is a very difficult topic to talk about.

Tune into the morning news on Tuesday (1/15). I will discuss, "How to Handle Political Disagreements with Your Partner."

Dr. Terri

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Happy New Year!

Every year around this time, experts talk about the trends for the coming year. What are your predictions or forecasts for romance and relationships in 2008?

Then, tune into the morning news on Tuesday, Jan. 8th. I will discuss what I think is ahead for love, romance and relationships in 2008. Are you ready for the new relationship or romance trends in 2008?

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The holiday season is a time to spend relaxing meals and converse with family and friends. But for many, this time of the year means stressful family get-togethers.

How do you survive this difficult time? How do you handle family holiday meals with relatives who don’t like each other---or you, for that matter?

I also will be discussing this topic on Tuesday morning. Tune in to the morning news!

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The holidays are a time to celebrate love and affection. Yet, it can sometimes be stressful trying to figure out the perfect holiday gift for that someone special in your life.

What are your recommendations? What is the worst holiday gift you ever received from your partner?

I also will be discussing this topic on Tuesday morning. Tune in to the morning news!

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WOMEN-- What do you think are the most important things that men need to understand about women and relationships?

ThisTuesday morning (11/20), The Love Doctor will be discussing "The Top 3 Things Men Need to Understand about Women and Relationships".

MEN-- Next week, you'll get to comment on what women need to understand about men and relationships.

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Want to take a Relationship Quiz? See how much you know. Answer True or False to these 4 questions.

1. Opposites attract and stay together over the long-term.

2. Women are more romantic in their beliefs than men.

3. Having separate lives keeps couples together long-term.

4. Couples should be able to discuss everything.

They are all false. All myths about marriage/relationships. Listen to today's Love Doctor segment to replace these popular myths with relationship realities.

 

 

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One of the hardest things to handle in a relationship is conflict. A good relationship is where the two of you disagree, but you fight fair. 

This Tuesday (11/6) I will be giving The Love Doctor’s Tips to help you and your partner fight fair the next time conflict arises.

In the meantime, what do you think? How do you fight fair? How do you handle conflict in your relationship?

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We have all been dizzy with desire at the beginning of a promising romance. But how do you know if it is really love or just lust?

This Tuesday morning (10/23), I will be giving you some clues to determine if what you are feeling is more than just lust.

In the meantime, what are your thoughts?

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Love_Doctor

Hi! I am Dr. Terri Orbuch (Ph.D.), The Love Doctor. I am a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, Oakland University professor, and research professor at The University of Michigan, Institute for Social Research. I so enjoy my Love Doctor segments every Tuesday between 8-9 a.m. on Fox 2 morning news. Relationships are so vital to our health and wellbeing! As an NIH-funded research scientist affiliated with two universities, I have access to the most current findings about relationships. There is a wealth of fascinating information that “gets lost in dry academic journals that few people read.” I am passionate about bringing new or buried information to you in the form of realistic advice you can readily understand and use. I grew up in Minneapolis. I have been married for 15 years and I am the proud mother of two children (10 and 13 years old).

Member Since: 9/18/2006